Tuesday, 24 November 2015

Indifference-does it really make a difference?




Nothing concerns me more than the unhealthy element present in any society which is none other than indifference.This term is not something to be defined in order to be understood or think upon .It can only be understood or felt when you observe it yourself .

The idea itself is unpleasant when it crosses the mind .How can one spend his life cotentented and to the utmost not being affected or touched by the lives of others people around him? How can one just let go or shake off the uneasy feeling when the person next door is suffering or going through tough times? We sure are not responsible for every situaton that occurs but it is certainly  not mean we give cold shoulder when one demands to be understood and helped.
In this era ,where every one is busy running in circles like the contestants of the marathon race,trying to reach the finish line which as they approach towards it seems to disappear making them even more tiresome but anyhow they continue their journey running along crooked tracks towards a spot they call their destiny.If only this thought occurs to them that true destiny is not somewhere you can reach on your own without picking up others stumbling in your way .You can never win by making others to lose or allow them to suffer if they are.One wins  genuinely when he realizes he is not walking alone on his journey and he accepts the responsibility to help those who are weaker than him or are unable to cross the hurdles .His true strength outshines when the concept of 'only me' starts to vanish and resides somewhere at the back of his mind a new feeling emerges and widespreads his system .The feeling of empathy ,the feeling of consciousness of the surrounding ,to be aware of one's suffering .Life is not to be lived as a never ending race where one is only concerned about touching the finish line no matter what it takes for him to do so forgetting about others who are also valuable just as you are,their existence is of same importance compared to yours.You can not simply leave behind everyone .Modesty is to treat your fellow men well ,providing them hope with your strength,lending and ear to what necessary thing they have to say if all this is not possible then atleast silently observe what's happening around you.Observe everything you think is bothering you .Watch out for things which are stealing the peace of your mind.If you notice your rights are being violated then do not wait for anyone to serve what you deserve on a silver platter.Go after it following your inner voice,stand up for things you feel should be revolutionalized.Show that you care for your home where you live in and ofcourse for the fellow citizen.Empathy never brings anyone down or lower a person's esteem instead it lifts a person placing him at the apex where he could finally feel at peace,heart brimming with content,eyes shining with pure bliss moreover you can eventually feel your reflection dancing under the moonlight.It costs nothing except a soul which carries the potential to feel for others.

Small talks-A hazard to our generation


Small talks-A hazard to our generation 


In this new era where communication has surely taken a U-turn ,it's merits are declining gradually on the other hand.
In every field of life,communication is a fundamental source of progress ,it is impossible to proceed without communicating with each other.Now ,modernization has overwhelmed it ,its easy to link or stay in touch with people living near or miles away from you through variable applications in your reach but simultaneously it is giving birth to something disadvantageous and almost rueful that is "Small talks".It is not only a product of modern technology and its effects but the evolution of our mindset which do not often allow us to get involved in deeper and meaningful conversations which are much needed in the current situations of this global village.

  What are small talks?
  Small talks includes;chit chat,gossips etc. in which one enters the entire conversation without getting to know the other person.Small talks are utterly useless and the thing to be concerned about it, is that it's taken hold over our generation which is not appreciable if we put some sense in it these gossips and chit chats leads a person to nowhere it sure might give us pleasure but it is none other than a 'real murderer 'of our precious time.Our situation demands meaningful and fruitful conversations ,since depth and meaning flies away with small talk hence it is worthless.Just imagine a reservoir ,when it scarcely rains the depth decreases upto some extent a time arrives when it does not rain at all and the depth of water decreases to the maximum causing water shortage.A reservoir without water is useless ,similarly when depth is absent from any conversation it becomes futile.
It seems like instead of talking to each other we talk about  others which is another aspect to be pondered upon.